tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4601554061744503449.post7955861238669342836..comments2023-10-05T05:35:00.602-04:00Comments on Kerri's Klutter: Retracing my stepsSugar Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03888201944243203049noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4601554061744503449.post-19755952763520988092010-01-13T11:08:44.108-05:002010-01-13T11:08:44.108-05:00@Candace..it is worth it, it totally is. Sometimes...@Candace..it is worth it, it totally is. Sometimes I guess it just takes us awhile to see<br /><br />@ Kristen..I love you and hope things get easier for us<br /><br />@ Erica..thank you for sharing, for reading and for being a part of my life...Sugar Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03888201944243203049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4601554061744503449.post-55362565697855759342010-01-11T11:15:29.399-05:002010-01-11T11:15:29.399-05:00first of all, i always find that i need tissues wh...first of all, i always find that i need tissues while reading your blog and the comments.. very emotional.. but it's good to get it all out.. second, you're right, you're writing for you, but in that you're also writing for others.. i love your honesty, and you help to show ppl that they're only human.. you tell about the things that other ppl think they should be ashamed of, but then when (i) read your blog it shows me that "i'm not the only one". you give me a sense of "normalcy". a little piece of advice, it's always good to face your "demons" head on.. you have to figure out the right way to do it, and let them go.. it's a tremendous weight to be rid of.. it's not easy, and i know i have a few more to face myself just not sure how to approach them yet.. i know that if i hadn't gotten through quite a few of them, carl lee and i wouldn't be getting married.. this whole time he's been the one that wanted to get married, not me.. i got some things right in my head (only took me 6 yrs) and now i'm ready.. same thing with family and friends. analyze the things that you really can't deal with and see what things you can just let go of. fight for what you believe, always, and know for sure what it is you're fighting for..;)ericanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4601554061744503449.post-16318655742498478952010-01-10T15:50:57.975-05:002010-01-10T15:50:57.975-05:00Not sure really if this post is intended for me, b...Not sure really if this post is intended for me, but in either case I felt I needed to say this as there has been alot in my head lately and this is good a time as any...<br /><br />My little sister, almost all of my life we've had each other. At certain times we have laughed together, cried together, yelled at each other, lied to each other, but we have always loved each other. <br />In my heart I know that everything I do, will somehow have an effect on you. I try so hard to always set a good example. Life isn't easy, and when it's not, I want to be there to guide your way with you. I want you to know, that no matter where I am, what I'm doing, or who I'm with, if you are in trouble, I'll drop everything, and be there. Sometimes, life gets in the way of who we really want to be. You are, and will always be, my bestest friend. I love you very much and want you to always have faith in that. My little sister, I am here for you always. <3Kristennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4601554061744503449.post-63469771649671701202010-01-10T15:12:01.922-05:002010-01-10T15:12:01.922-05:00I think it's okay for you to feel the way you ...I think it's okay for you to feel the way you do. For you to want things to be different. But I also think that you need to come to terms with the fact that she may be happy with things the way they are. Or content. Or oblivious. Whatever the case may be. BUT you should continue to feel the way you feel and wish things were different...and if/when the day comes that she is ready to change things, hopefully you're still there wanting to. We can only be ourselves. And if being you means that you want more, keep wanting more. You may get hurt, but I think it's worth it. I think. (Sometimes I wonder though...)Candace Rae's Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14417011817797114251noreply@blogger.com